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emotions 'n' motions

'I am not emotional', how many times have we heard that, not only from others but very often we saying it ourselves. Being emotional is percieved to be a weak link, a sore spot, a chink in the armour; which the whole bad world is waiting to exploit.

Why is that we so scared of being emotional, is it that bad? I would say its a misunderstood notion, emotions are expressed feelings. Frowning in disgust, punching or leaping in the air when overjoyed, clutching of fists in anticipiation & even crying; they are all different forms of emotions, reflective of our feelings.

Thus emotions are a 'mirror image' of our mental state. Now this is where the crux of the problem lies. Anyone can peek into us through this outlet. They can use it to their advantage & they do. So what to do simple: stop being emotional. Does that mean I keep all my thoughts to myself. Now we all know thats not possible, neither is it prudent.

We all need an outlet to express ourselves, what's crucial is choosing the right one. Its about exercising caution & have a firm control over yourself & ofcourse your emotions. Picture this: A person with whom you are just an acquitance at best, telling you story about his/her personal life. All the time you keep nodding your head in approval but inside you are wondering, 'why the hell is she telling me all this, how am I concerned?' You the value of that person goes down in your eyes. Its for you choose the right platform (as in the people) for sharing your precious feelings, not everyone needs to be told everything.


Ever had a sudden outburst on someone, where out of no where you find a reason to be angry & shout at someone. Happens to the best of people. We are not able to control our feelings & lash out. I can't shout at my boss so what my girl friend is there. Hey if you are upset or not in a good mood, this is no reason for rude behaviour (my dear friend helped me realize it). You may spoil your perfectly good relations with a single stroke of foolishness. You can fret, regret, apologize; why not control it.


Emotions ought to be expressed, but with due care. After all 'emotions drive our motions'.

posted by Shashank Jain @ 1:09 AM