my log

in my mind

The attraction towards the opposite sex has been there from eternity & it exists even more so openly now. So what point I am trying to drive home. No I firmly believe in being striaght so, don't get me wrong.

We come across a lot of people in our lives. But only a select few touch your heart. There was a time when I was smitten by every second girl I saw. But when I interacted with them, got to know them; the fascination didnt last too long. I mean not all of them were really what they projected they were. They were wearing a mask so to say to hide their real identity.

This infact has been the prime reason why relationships don't last. All of us want to project ourselves favourably with others. That lures us to potray a different person than we really are. When we start a relationship everything seems so heavenly. It seems to be the best thing to have ever happened to us. But then when you gradually come to know the harsh reality, it all fades away.


Most girls I have been with seemed, well no offence meant, intersting to begin with. As the relationship grew came their uncalled for advises, their 'overcaring' & 'know the best' syndrome. By no means am I trying to pull the opposite sex down. Men enjoy it. But you got to give space to the other person. Calling up ten times a day may sound romantic but after a while it gets irritating.

As its said 'excess of everything is bad', even love. I enjoyed laying down in lap of my loved one, she playing with hair, I holding her hand n bla bla bla...... but after a certain level, you realize that the person you liked in the first place never existed. It was just a mirage.


What I am trying to imply is one should be true to himself. Its very crucial to know what & who you are. Instead of trying to be everybody just be yourself & yo will be the best.

posted by Shashank Jain @ 8:33 PM